We recently had the situation that a customer complained about the Oom killer terminating the MariaDB database instance from time to time. The MariaDB database configuration was sized quit OK (about 50% of RAM was used for the database) but they did not have swap configured.
When we checked the memory for the specific mysqld process we found that VSZ was about 80 Gibyte (on a 64 Gibyte machine) and the RSS size was about 42 Gibyte. The very high VSZ value in combination with a lacking swap space and Oom …